Q : I am 20 and my husband is 31 yrs. Both of us have lot of age difference. However elders got us married as it was a good match. I am not getting any thrill from him in sex. He is having sex 3-4 times a day and he is having lot of happiness. Is age difference reason behind me not getting thrill. My friend told me that couple shouldn’t have more than 2 years age difference. He said couple with more than 4yrs age difference will not be happy. It seems this is true in my case.What I have to do?
Ans : Wavelength between husband and wife will be the same if they are of same age or 2-4 years difference. If age difference is more,leave about husband’s feelings,woman gets a feeling that he is elder person. A woman cannot move freely with elders unlike same age group persons.Husband treats young wife as a kid and show his male power. He will see happiness in his sex life. Since she is young he will be carving for more sex but she will be dull. That is why it is not advisable to have age gap between husband and wife. Since in your case you got married, you should stop thinking about age difference and think how to enjoy your married life.